Kurds and beauty

[Kurdistano]

but his eyes are the only thing looks kurdish and his eyebrow

He is a model, models are known to not look like the average, otherwise they wouldnt be models.

[Anthea]

@ Zert

Thank you VERY MUCH for your link on Kurdish history

https://lepzerin.wordpress.com/

[newsreader123]

this one is a kurdish female model her name is dashni murad

[Anthea]

I found this video and it contains some really beautiful Kurdish girls

[Azamat]

this one is a kurdish female model her name is dashni murad

I've seen prettier.

Why is it that it takes no effort to find some really gorgeous Kurdish ladies on social networking sites, on youtube videos of Kurdish gatherings, or just across the street, while the more mediocre-looking Kurdish women are the ones that rise to fame and celebrity?

[Kurdistano]

this one is a kurdish female model her name is dashni murad

I've seen prettier.

Why is it that it takes no effort to find some really gorgeous Kurdish ladies on social networking sites, on youtube videos of Kurdish gatherings, or just across the street, while the more mediocre-looking Kurdish women are the ones that rise to fame and celebrity?

Dashni Murad is a descend looking Girl/Woman you cant deny this. But I know what you mean, its simply because of our society. Its not about the best looking girl becoming famous but the best looking girl who is allowed to show herself in social media. Even though we Kurds are relatively open minded when it comes to womans dressing (no burka etc) many still find it too open to see their daughters and sister in Bikini on TV.

And when it comes to, to become famous for Kurds its more important about character and other talents than look. This is what I observed.

[Anthea]

@ Kurdistano

And when it comes to, to become famous for Kurds its more important about character and other talents than look. This is what I observed.

And when it comes to, to become famous for Kurds its more important about character and other talents than look. This is what I observed.

Kurdistano, I believe you are perfectly right. But it does not only apply to Kurds. Young women worldwide, while dressing fashionably, would rather be known for their brains and their achievements than the amount of make-up they wear

Men are to blame

If a woman looks beautiful she is ALWAYS surrounded by stupid POSSESSIVE men. If someone is trying to study men can be EXTREMELY ANNOYING

Do NOT look on women as SEX OBJECTS

Almost ALL men will go out with someone who looks like a model BUT very few men (especially Kurdish men) want to marry a model

[kani]

I am with Anthea.
Let's say,I have many finnish boy friends and many of them have told me that they would only sleep with models but never EVER marry them.
I don't know what the reason is and I have always thought about it.

[Bohe]

I am with Anthea.
Let's say,I have many finnish boy friends and many of them have told me that they would only sleep with models but never EVER marry them.
I don't know what the reason is and I have always thought about it.

I'll answer for them. Models or whatever sort of girls your friends are referring to, are seen as only "fun" and not serious relationship material. Why? Because they think they're one or more of the following; 1. Easy/slutty 2. unintelligent 3. not suitable for raising a family (ties in with No1) That's why guys mess around with "bad" girls (for sex) and marry good girls (family, love etc.).

I don't, however agree with these assumptions.

[Anthea]

I do not think that Kurdish men look for beauty, I believe that the average Kurdish man wants to marry a woman just like his mother

A slave
A servant
A good cook
A baby making machine
Someone who never asks for money
Someone who does what he tells her to
Someone who keeps the home very clean
Someone who does not want a life of her own
Someone who never asks where her husband has been
Someone who only goes out to visit other Kurdish ladies
Someone who never goes out without asking his permission
Someone who stays awake waiting for her husband to come home
Someone who will NEVER talk to another man unless he is a relation

And when HE has HIS friends to visit, someone who will cook for them,
keeps them supplied with tea and then goes to SIT ON HER OWN in the kitchen

[kurdistanis1]

I do not think that Kurdish men look for beauty, I believe that the average Kurdish man wants to marry a woman just like his mother

A slave
A servant
A good cook
A baby making machine
Someone who never asks for money
Someone who does what he tells her to
Someone who keeps the home very clean
Someone who does not want a life of her own
Someone who never asks where her husband has been
Someone who only goes out to visit other Kurdish ladies
Someone who never goes out without asking his permission
Someone who stays awake waiting for her husband to come home
Someone who will NEVER talk to another man unless he is a relation

And when HE has HIS friends to visit, someone who will cook for them,
keeps them supplied with tea and then goes to SIT ON HER OWN in the kitchen

How dare you disrespect our mothers, they're the pride of our families you ignorant punk. We love, respect and serve our mothers more than ourselves, unlike our "westerner" friends, that call them bitches and spit on them. shame on you.

[ideas]

As long as a woman can make a good sandwich we're on board!

[Anthea]

How dare you disrespect our mothers, they're the pride of our families you ignorant punk. We love, respect and serve our mothers more than ourselves, unlike our "westerner" friends, that call them bitches and spit on them. shame on you.

I NEVER said that you disrespect your mothers

I have only stated the things that MANY Kurdish women, now living in UK, from NK have told me

I do not blame the husbands

Poor Kurdish men who have had to borrow large amounts of money to get to UK
Often spending YEARS trying to bring their wives and children here
Years ago there was a four hold on refugee claims and the men had to wait 4 YEARS before they could even claim asylum and start applying to bring their families
They have often spent VERY long hours working in kebab shops and they managed to bring their families here they spent their spare time sitting in the kahves and cafés
The kebab shops they work in are often on or near council estates or in EXTREMELY violent neighbourhoods
Most of these men have had no chance to learn English or anything about English culture.
The only English people most of them ever speak to are the DRUNKS leaning on the kebab shop counter

When their wives and children finally arrive in the UK they are often housed by local councils in housing estates. Let me tell you about the HOUSING ESTATES
The estates where Kurdish refugees are placed are often the WORST estates
Sweet innocent Kurdish wives are faced with:
Women who have several children of assorted colours and NO husband
Women who wear too much make-up; dress like prostitutes; act like prostitutes; shout and swear all the time
Drug dealers and drug dens (houses and flats where drug dealers work from)
THEY OFTEN see drugs sold openly on the streets, generally by NOT WHITE people
Hear very loud music and lots of all night parties
RACISM
There is a lot of racism on these estates
Kurdish families on estates are often treated WORSE than even the not white drug dealers
If families complain to the police ALL the non Kurdish neighbours get together and tell lies saying the Kurdish family are to blame

The women are often frightened and the men are far more possessive than they were in NK

The Kurdish women themselves told me that their husbands had changed since being in UK

I am NOT surprised. I do NOT blame the men.

The LOVELY KURDISH LADIES who I know and love dearly like my sisters have told me EVERYTHING that I have written

[kurdistanis1]

How dare you disrespect our mothers, they're the pride of our families you ignorant punk. We love, respect and serve our mothers more than ourselves, unlike our "westerner" friends, that call them bitches and spit on them. shame on you.

I NEVER said that you disrespect your mothers

I have only stated the things that MANY Kurdish women, now living in UK, from NK have told me

I do not blame the husbands

Poor Kurdish men who have had to borrow large amounts of money to get to UK
Often spending YEARS trying to bring their wives and children here
Years ago there was a four hold on refugee claims and the men had to wait 4 YEARS before they could even claim asylum and start applying to bring their families
They have often spent VERY long hours working in kebab shops and they managed to bring their families here they spent their spare time sitting in the kahves and cafés
The kebab shops they work in are often on or near council estates or in EXTREMELY violent neighbourhoods
Most of these men have had no chance to learn English or anything about English culture.
The only English people most of them ever speak to are the DRUNKS leaning on the kebab shop counter

When their wives and children finally arrive in the UK they are often housed by local councils in housing estates. Let me tell you about the HOUSING ESTATES
The estates where Kurdish refugees are placed are often the WORST estates
Sweet innocent Kurdish wives are faced with:
Women who have several children of assorted colours and NO husband
Women who wear too much make-up; dress like prostitutes; act like prostitutes; shout and swear all the time
Drug dealers and drug dens (houses and flats where drug dealers work from)
THEY OFTEN see drugs sold openly on the streets, generally by NOT WHITE people
Hear very loud music and lots of all night parties
RACISM
There is a lot of racism on these estates
Kurdish families on estates are often treated WORSE than even the not white drug dealers
If families complain to the police ALL the non Kurdish neighbours get together and tell lies saying the Kurdish family are to blame

The women are often frightened and the men are far more possessive than they were in NK

The Kurdish women themselves told me that their husbands had changed since being in UK

I am NOT surprised. I do NOT blame the men.

The LOVELY KURDISH LADIES who I know and love dearly like my sisters have told me EVERYTHING that I have written

You were the one being disrespectful, there is no reason for you to say we make our women slaves and baby making machines.

[Anthea]

You were the one being disrespectful, there is no reason for you to say we make our women slaves and baby making machines.

SORRY but that is what the Kurdish ladies have told me, and that is how many of them feel

Many of the young Kurdish ladies coming to join husbands in UK are PREVENTED from learning English until after they have had children.

We have young Kurdish ladies coming here with dreams of learning English and going to college and university but they seldom do

The reality is that husbands, who may have been parted from their wives for several years, want to have more children as soon as the wives join them in UK

The same applies to the younger just newly married. There is a lot of pressure from all their relations for them to start families

If you do not like the TRUTH then perhaps you could help to educate the husbands about the importance of the wives learning English